Getting Your Headshot Doesn't Have To Be Uncomfortable

Getting your first professional headshot can feel intimidating. Almost every week, I have clients come into my Draper studio or invite me on-site who confess right away: “I don’t know what to do with my hands,” or “I hate having my picture taken.” Some even ask, “Will you tell me how to pose?”—and the answer is always yes.

Headshots are about more than just snapping a quick photo. They’re about building confidence, trust, and approachability, both in how you feel during the session and in how others see you when they look at your photo online. And the good news? It’s always easier than people think.

Why Not Just Use AI?

One client recently told me he tried generating a headshot with AI because he didn’t want to deal with a photo session. But the images didn’t quite look like him. Something was always off—the angles, the skin texture, even the way his hair looked. Eventually, he decided he’d rather go with a professional photographer to capture a genuine image of himself.

AI can’t pick up on the details that make you, you. That’s where I come in—making sure your headshot is not only professional, but also true to who you are.

The First Few Minutes

When someone walks in for their first headshot, they’re often stiff and nervous. I always start with a few quick “test” shots to dial in lighting and settings. During this time, I let clients know these photos aren’t the real deal yet—they’re just warm-ups. Almost immediately, shoulders drop, people breathe a little easier, and I can see them start to relax.

Once I’m ready, I guide every step: how to angle your shoulders, where to turn your face, how to soften your smile, and where to look (always directly into the lens). By then, clients realize they don’t have to figure out anything on their own. I’m here to walk them through it.

And within minutes, most say the same thing: “Wow, that was actually really easy.”

Real Client Stories

Not long ago, a client told me she was self-conscious because when she smiles, one of her eyes tends to close more than the other. While I couldn’t change that completely, I was able to work with her expressions and angles. We found that when she smiled a little softer, the issue wasn’t as noticeable. At one point, I caught a perfect frame—her expression was warm and genuine, the pose flattering, and her eyes beautifully balanced. She loved it. That’s what professional photography is all about: adapting to real people, not trying to make them fit into a mold.

My Approach

I don’t rely on cheesy jokes or forced laughs. Instead, I connect with people. I ask about their day, their job, what this headshot means to them. That conversation creates comfort, which translates into natural, confident photos. A headshot should feel like you, not like a stiff version of yourself.

Tips to Help You Prepare for Your Session

Want to make your headshot session as smooth as possible? Here are a few simple tips:

Pick an outfit that you feel confident in. Comfort shows on camera.

Avoid wearing plain white. If you do wear white, layer it under a jacket or sweater.

Take care of the details. Brush your teeth, moisturize your face, and use chapstick or lipstick to avoid dry lips.

For women: Makeup is encouraged, but avoid heavy or overly bold colors.

For men: Trim or shave facial hair, and don’t forget the neck area for a clean, sharp look.

Why On-Site Headshots Work Too

While I have a studio in Draper, I also photograph headshots on-site for teams across the Salt Lake area, including Sandy, Lehi, and beyond. For companies, this makes the process easier and helps show future clients a more authentic side of their team. Whether it’s in a polished office or a cozy corner, on-location photography can make team headshots feel warm, inviting, and professional.

Final Thoughts

Your first headshot doesn’t have to be stressful. With the right guidance, you’ll not only look professional—you’ll feel comfortable and confident, too. Most clients leave saying they’re surprised by how painless (and even fun) the process was.

If you’ve been putting off getting a professional headshot, now is the perfect time. Whether you’re an individual in need of your first headshot or a company in Draper, Sandy, Lehi, or the greater Salt Lake City area looking to update your team photos, I’d be happy to help you look your best.

Ready to book your first headshot?

Reach out today and let’s create something that feels like you—professional, approachable, and authentic. You can contact me here.